Frequently asked questions

A tantra massage is a sensory journey through the whole body. Unlike a classic massage, it is not about relaxing the muscles but about emotional release, awakening sensuality and setting sexual energy in motion, the energy of life itself. Read more.

The work is not sexual in nature, but it is carried by your sexual energy. Awakening sexual energy does not mean that sexual arousal has to arise, though it does not rule it out either. Ejaculation in men and clitoral orgasm in women are not part of a tantra massage.

Yes. A tantra massage is holistic: every part of the body is awakened, including the genital area. This area contains many nerve endings and acupuncture points. Activating them can release stored energy for recovery, rejuvenation and the development of consciousness. So it is not meant to make the massage more “exciting”.

A tantra massage on the massage table or on the floor (2 hours), a yoni or lingam tantra massage on the floor (2 hours, including a full body massage), tantra mentoring for couples (6 weeks), private online consultations and personal mentoring (6 weeks). See all sessions.

I give the massages in my practice in Gouda, the Netherlands. Consultations, mentoring and courses take place online, via WhatsApp or Telegram, so you can join them from anywhere.

I would love that. Before you book a session, I suggest a short video call of 10 to 15 minutes on WhatsApp. We get acquainted, you ask your questions and we talk about your health, your lifestyle and why you would like this experience. Get in touch.

Avoid coffee and alcohol for at least 48 hours beforehand, and drugs or other toxic substances for at least 7 days. Eat lightly on the day itself, ideally arrive with an empty stomach, and make sure your body is clean. All about your session.

A massage session lasts 2 hours. Beforehand we take 10 to 15 minutes for a conversation with the instructions, and afterwards there is time to come back and share your experience.

Music easily carries you off into its own story, while it is important that you stay in yours. Without music you can keep your attention on your own sensations and emotions more easily.

All kinds of things: tingling, warmth, shivers, deep relaxation, but also emotions such as joy, sadness, tenderness or anger, and sometimes memories or images. Your body holds all of your experiences. Breath and sound help you to live through whatever comes up consciously and to let it go.

The massage is a gateway to a new state. The energy keeps working for at least a week; avoid making major decisions during that time. In the five days after the session you can reach me on WhatsApp free of charge if you want to share something, have questions or need support.

Massages are paid in cash, on site and before the session. For mentoring a deposit applies. When requesting online guidance, please mention which country you will be paying from; payment in digital currency is possible.

A consultation is a video call via WhatsApp or Telegram lasting roughly one to one and a half hours. It is meant for anyone who wants clarity on a specific question or situation. If you would like longer-term guidance, the 6-week mentoring is a better fit.

Through my Telegram channel Quantum Sexuality. Subscribers have free access to the video lessons, the guide, the webinar recording, the books and the course Activating a Woman’s Sexual Power. You will find the links in the pinned messages.

This website is intended for adults (18+). The articles speak openly about sexuality, intimacy and erotic techniques.